She is never the cause of a problem and never had anything to do with it.
Same moral values and respect for others' values and feelings.
When you do that, she then starts looking at your physical appearance in a positive light.
But until she gets help for her personal demons, she will never be able to fully love anyone.
I learned it the hard way too, mate.
I need a lot of time alone or with my friends and I don't want my partner to be anxious or angry at me for doing so.