This is causing the problems, whether it be ADHD, or anything else.
Is she smiling, laughing and having a good time? Let's just hope that your son and the rest of your family are not some of those victims.
If she likes you, she might hold your gaze for a long time or pull away immediately, but this is not clear cut.
Let your voice be heard - you do not have to wait to go into the recovery room to feed your newborn.