So you need to have a conversation about it.
I find my own sexual stimulation increases exponentially when I arouse the man I married.
1 Corinthians 7:3-5 NASB God even tells us that the husband does not have control of his body.
It starts with prayer and listening.
And whatever the man called every living creature, that was its name.
Hebrews 13: 4 and 1 Corinthians 7:1-6.